Casting a Wide Net for your Caregiving Team

Caregiver in Bridgehampton NY: Casting a Wide Net for your Caregiving Team

“There are only four kinds of people in the world: those who have been caregivers, those who are currently caregivers, those who will be caregivers, and those who will need caregivers.”—Rosalyn Carter.

Caregiving affects everyone. Chances are good that at some point in everyone’s life, they will be the cared for or the one that takes care of. It helps to remember this when you find yourself in need of a caregiving team for your parent.

The Caregiving Team

It is human nature to turn to your closest friends and family members when in need of support and care for your elderly parent. And, at first, that may be enough. Time may prove that additional tasks need to be placed on the daily activities list. Transportation may become an issue. Meals may eventually need to be prepared on a daily basis. As the list of needs grow, time becomes a valuable asset that you may feel shrinking with each passing day.

Knowing that we will all be in this position in one form or another may help you develop the strength to throw your net wide when looking for alternative care for your parent. Many hesitate to ask acquaintances fearing they are overstepping the unspoken boundaries of good social etiquette. But you’ll be surprised at the people that are more than happy to assist. And for those that do not have the time or inclination, a simple no will suffice. Don’t take it personally.

Make a list of all the daily activities your parent requires help with and be sure to add transportation and social engagement. Use this as an easy tool to share with people who can sign up for specific tasks on whatever days they prefer.

Neighbors

We are surrounded by neighbors—many of whom we barely know by name. Some of these neighbors may very well be retired and looking for an activity that will help them feel needed. Helping you and your parent will restore a little of the self-esteem that was lost when they left their job of twenty years or their home became an empty nest.

Social Network

Your parent may have been involved in the Kiwanis Club, a reading group, a political outreach program. Find out the groups or people they may have been involved with and consider visiting them or sending them a note explaining your parent’s condition and needs.

Senior Community Center

Your local senior community center is a wealth of information. They often are aware of volunteer organizations in your area, whether for transportation or meal delivery. They are a wonderful place for your parent to congregate and meet with those who may be in similar circumstances. They offer classes and activities designed to keep your parent actively engaged.

Home Care Provider

A home care provider can fill in the gaps in your daily activity plan. They can help your parent with the everyday tasks of life as well as perform light housekeeping and prepare meals. They provide that essential element of a life well-lived—companionship.

If you or an aging loved one are considering hiring caregiver services in Bridgehampton, NY, call the caring staff at Artful Home Care today at 631-685-5001.

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